“Who people are is not written on stone.” – Antano Solar John
There are so many people who go to “motivational” seminars and read books, just to learn “techniques” to evolve themselves to learn faster, develop better relationships and be happier. But there are some people who naturally learn fast, have amazing relationships and are truly happy from within. The latter group of people don’t need an external setup to motivate them. What is the difference between these two contrasting classes of people?
Knowing the techniques of connecting with people is not enough to be an expert at connecting with people. One has to be capable first. Being “capable” is where it has become a part of your neurology. Being “capable” of connecting with people is NOT where you “consciously” try to connect with people. Instead, it is where you feel like connecting with people is as much a part of you as walking or breathing! People who are a natural at connecting with people don’t necessarily need to learn “techniques” or read lots of books about connecting with people. Why? Because they don’t have to! And “motivation” to meet new people just happens as a by-product of being “capable” of connecting with people.
Geniuses have refined capabilities to learn fast, to get into high performance states on-demand, to connect with people deeply, to creatively think out-of-the-box and so on.